Reggae Dhamma

Until last Friday, I had never paid any attention to this pop song.  Its strongest association in my mind was with a car commercial that I must have seen a thousand times when I was younger.  Merely background music.  But last week, when it came on the jazz radio station in a café, I listened, really listened, for the first time.  And would you believe it — not only is it beautiful, but it also contains some great Reggae Dhamma.

For real, people, this is exactly what I’ve been learning through meditation. Four parts in particular really get to the root of things:

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Follow Kloncke On Twitter!

For folks who use it, you can find me @kloncke.

I’ll be updating regarding the blog posts, so people know what’s hap’nin here.  I still have my reservations about the tool, mainly because I think it encourages extreme identification with thinking and doing at the expense of being and presence.  The only way to tweet while being fully present would be to type something like, “I am typing the t key now the h key now the e key on my twitter.”  And even that doesn’t cut it.  You feel me?  You can only really tweet about something you just did or something you’re going to do, both of which only exist in your mind (memory or projection), not in deeper reality.  You can’t tweet about what you are doing right now.  Impossible.

On the other hand, like TV, I think that if used wisely and cautiously, it can be helpful.

Tweet, tweet!  Modernity.

Start The Week Off “Right”

Bonjour, mes amis!  Those of you in the U.S., hope y’all had yourselves a fun Independence Day.

So here I was this morning in Cap Ferret (which, I now realize, is a kind of French version of the way I imagine the Hamptons would be). I’m back up on the blog, organizing my photos and getting ready to publish today’s post.  Then I noticed a new email in my inbox.

At first I almost deleted it.  I didn’t recognize the sender’s name or the names of other recipients, and the text preview showed only French.  Who would send me an email all in French?  But instead of erasing it, I opened it.  Still uncomprehending, I clicked the link.  Where was all this leading?

Watch the video (English with French subtitles), and you’ll hear the story of Dr. Jill Bolte Taylor and her own “Independence Day.”  From what tryant did she gain independence?  Her own mind.  Her “self.”  Her ego.  Thanks to a brain hemorrhage, the experience of which she describes in vivid and hilarious detail, this neuroscientist experienced what the Buddha called anatta — “no self.”  For one day, in her words, she “found nirvana.”

I remember shelving Dr. Taylor’s memoir when I worked at Harvard Book Store.  I never read it, though.  Never even thumbed through it.  Now I’m thankful to have had another chance to hear her story, which expresses, in essence, the aims of my own meditation practice, travels, blogging, and being.  Thanks, Dr. Taylor.  And to the French Email Angel, whoever you are, Merci Beaucoup. :)

Friends, Meet Les Bébés Chamaillard

Photo credit: Proud Papa

The Chamaillard and Loncke families have a long history together.  Forty years ago, my dad met Patrick Chamaillard at law school, and the two became lifelong friends.  Dad visited the Chamaillards in France many times; he still remembers the stories Patrick’s father (who, coincidentally, taught at Harvard as a visiting professor in, like, 1929) used to tell about kings and banquets and eels. I myself am named after Patrick’s late wife, a luminous, beloved, big-hearted woman who died of cancer before I was born.

As teenagers, in the early nineties or so, the three Chamaillard children — Melanie, Laure, and Guillaume — each spent a summer with our family in California.  (I was wee so I don’t remember too much about it, but to this day Melanie can still recite our address.)  And now, all the children have children of their own.  This week was my chance to meet the new generation.

Laure gave birth to beautiful twins: Bastien, on my lap in the photo above, and his brother Hugo.  So sweet and curious.  Can’t hardly feed ’em in the high chair, they’re so busy looking around the room.

Melanie has a wonderful baby daughter, Juliette.  Alert, full of smiles; loves it when you whistle. I stayed overnight and she didn’t cry even once, bless her heart.

And Guillaume’s daughter, Thelma, three-and-a-half, eluded my camera, on account of we were too busy reading and playing games with dad and granddad.  (Girl has got some energy.  Destined for soccer, just like her papa.)  We read a couple English Roger Hargreaves books (whose covers, to my delight, have started appearing on t-shirts lately), the French versions of which were some of my very first reading material as a little tyke.  And the circle of life continues…

Hell Yes.

Gay rights march in India

Dear people of India,

Congrats for decriminalizing gay sex!

May you enjoy this new right in as many healthy, consensual, loving, joyful, and creative ways as there are people in the country.  ;)  And may this outer, legal liberation encourage your inner, spiritual liberation — toward the peace and happiness of all beings.

love,

katie

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Update: My friend Ellora wrote a great note on Facebook pointing out the links between queer rights and anti-imperialism in this victory. I’m not sure if you have to be friends with her on Facebook in order to read it…but if not, definitely check it out!

Glutton-For-Punishment Peanut Noodles

It’s been a while since we had a food post.  The truth is it’s rare these days to have a kitchen to myself: I’ve either been team-cooking for 80 at the meditation centers, living on yogurt and trail mix all the way across Spain, or, at my favorite Barcelona cafe, earning a reputation as Hummus Salad Girl.  (And yes, I did take pictures of that glorious, glorious creation, too.  Stay tuned.)

Given these circumstances, it was a delight this week to make a simple meal for me and my friend Izzy to share in her Paris apartment.  I whipped up the peanut sauce in the morning at the meditation center, before returning to the city. (Had to take advantage of that bulk pantry: soy sauce, peanut butter, vinegar, lemon, brown sugar, hot chili powder, and toasted sesame seeds.  ‘Round these parts, laying hands on peanut butter in itself is like winning the lottery.)  Arrived in her neighborhood; embarked on a two-to-three-hour Broccoli Hunt.  (Failed, as you can see. Even the pinch-hitting cauliflower was a lucky find at the last minute. Did I mention I’m totally out of my grocery-shopping element here?)  Finally, when it was all made and plated, we sat down to eat.

Now, me, I was okay.  But Izzy, poor Izzy hit the dreaded Spicy Food Deadlock.  You know what I mean: we’ve all been there, no matter what our tolerance level.  Where the dish is delicious, and it’s not quite so hot that you absolutely have to put it aside.  So which waters more: your mouth or your eyes?

Izzy, my dear, I salute you.  It took you two days and three separate attempts to finish that plate of noodles.  And by gum, you did it.

Unos Preguntas

Questions, questions!  A couple of questions.

(A)-number-one: Why so silent, friends?!  I know y’all are there.  I can smell ya.  (And y’all smellin’ good! ;) ) No, but I can see the numbers on the stat counter, you know?  There are many, many more of you than I would have anticipated.  Great!  I hope you’re enjoying the space and finding it useful.

But, folks.

Y’all are the lurkinging bunch of lurkers that ever lurked the earth!

Haha, really now — I know my parents are not the only ones reading this blog.  ;)  So let’s make it a conversation.  I want to hear what you think.  Responses, critiques, questions, reflections, celebrations, ruminations, stuff you’re working on that has a similar vibe.  Let me know!  Or just say hi.  I do so love hearing from you here. (And thanks again to the people who’ve sent such beautiful emails.)

(B)-number-two: What do y’all think of the Friendly User Guide?  Has it been helpful?  What are your thoughts on how to engage with online spaces in the healthiest possible ways — physically, psychologically?

(C)-number-three: I’m considering starting a twitter account.  To link to new posts on the blog when they go up.  Good idea?  Bad idea?  Is anyone else weirded out that they ask for the password to your email account?

Let a human being know.  :)