Weekend Photos: Jazz In Parc Des Fleurs

Hey y’all, hope you had a wonderful weekend.  It’s been quite an eventful few days for me, here in Paris.  I guess I should have expected the unexpected from this city.  On all sides.

>>Wandering the Jewish quarter, mouth full of falafel, and running into two college friends who, by pure coincidence, happen to be in town for three weeks, studying Yiddish.

>>Cringing at the colonialist overtones of a tiny upstairs Tea Museum.

>>Befriending a group of 1930’s-style jazz street musicians on Saturday night, and trying my hand at their washtub bass.

>>Getting some difficult news from a lover back in the States.

>>As a result, insisting on getting a phone number from Hicham, the beautiful, kind-eyed Moroccan man I meet the next day on a bridge over the Seine, and with whom I spend a couple of hours, talking in French, browsing a bookstore, and sitting in a small park.  Insisting on getting his number because, in my forlornness, I can already tell that I’ll want to cancel our plans for the following day, so I’ll need a way to reach him and keep him from waiting for me at 2pm at Bastille.

>>And, after parting ways with Hicham, bawling my brains out watching The Reader in English with French subtitles.  Seriously, by the end of the movie my whole clavicle was caked in salt and my eyes looked like two cherry tomatoes.

But even the sorrow has its upside.  After all, Paris is a strong contender for Funniest Place To Be Heartbroken.  When the view from my heavy, bleary eyes consists entirely of elegant balconies, kissing couples, and a view of La Tour Eiffel in the distance, it’s hard not to smile at the sheer cliché.

Later on this week I’ll write a bit more about this whole heartbreak thing — not for purposes of venting or divulging but because I think it’s a great chance to reflect on the meaning of sorrow in the pursuit of happiness.  And observing my own reaction to the situation has been downright fascinating — an extraordinary reminder of just how much I’ve learned and grown over the last six months.

For now, though, indulge me.  I am about to go crazy on lotus pictures.  From a beautiful Sunday afternoon at the Paris Jazz Festival, in the stunning Parc Des Fleurs.   By the time I left I wasn’t walking, but dancing — all the way back to the Metro.  Wouldn’t you?

Weekend Benediction

Hey, friends!  Happy Friday.

Last night, after arriving back to Izzy’s place in Paris, I had a wonderful Skype conversation with a dear friend in California.  At one point the topic turned to love, surrender, and letting go of the illusion of control.  Reminded me of one of my favorite love poems, by Iranian Sufi poet Hafez.

The Sun Never Says

Even
After
All this time
The Sun never says to the Earth,

“You owe me.”

Look
What happens
With a love like that,
It lights the whole sky.

With metta and prayers for the people of Iran today.

Take care, everyone, and be well.  See you Monday!

love,

katie

A Star And A Sun

Yesterday I stumbled upon this latest entry by renowned hip-hop video blogger Jay Smooth.  I won’t go on about it too much — I think it speaks for itself — but I just wanted to share how thankful I am for his work on IllDoctrine.com (which I had all but forgotten since my Great Escape from the Internet).  I don’t agree with evvverything he says in his vlogs, but most of it gets a big Sadhu (well said) from here.  And this video’s insight about media and culture resonates particularly. As Jay puts it, we need to ensure that the coming generations can differentiate between media attention and genuine affection.  Real love, vital love, does not commodify us. It is not measured in applause, sales, or hit counts.

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Cap-Ferret: Beach

Phew! Okay folks, here’s the last of the Cap-Ferret photos. It is a wonderful place to be. Even better than it looks. My French could use some work, but at least I’ve still got the accent — and a good accent opens doors and hearts, let me tell you. Say “Hello, good morning” with the right cadence and people take you for a native.

But mostly, words have been unnecessary. The ocean and I are old friends. And you know what Khalil Gibran says about friends:

For without words, in friendship, all thoughts, all desires, all expectations are born and shared, with joy that is unacclaimed.

Enjoy the photos, enjoy the weekend, and take care, everyone!

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Cap-Ferret: Shelter

There’s something about beach towns.  Even opulent beach towns.  So much beauty in the weathering. Unlike giant cement cities, which seem so solid and indestructible, a little town by the ocean carries a sense of organic impermanence.  Like a sand castle.  Enjoy it while it’s here, because even now it is slowly, slowly washing away.

My camera isn’t super-fancy (not that I would know how to use a super-fancy camera if I had one! ha), so there’s a lot about the light and texture that I can’t get, but still, something of the color and gorgeous aging in this place comes through.

Les Galippettes: home of our friends the Chamaillards
Les Galippettes: home of our friends the Chamaillards

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Friends, Meet Nyle

Yo, isn’t it a fabulous feeling when one day you discover that a friend of yours has been…discovered? :D

Nyle Emerson and I met in the sweltering summer of 2006 while we were both volunteering for the Common Ground Collective in Post-Katrina New Orleans.  There was an open mic night for the CG folks, and when Nyle got up to do his thing, he asked for a “beautiful, willing female from the audience,” or something like that, to come up and kind of adorn his performance.  Ha! So when no one else volunteered, guess who stood up?

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Reggae Dhamma

Until last Friday, I had never paid any attention to this pop song.  Its strongest association in my mind was with a car commercial that I must have seen a thousand times when I was younger.  Merely background music.  But last week, when it came on the jazz radio station in a café, I listened, really listened, for the first time.  And would you believe it — not only is it beautiful, but it also contains some great Reggae Dhamma.

For real, people, this is exactly what I’ve been learning through meditation. Four parts in particular really get to the root of things:

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